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3 THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE ENGAGING IN ROUGH SEX

3 THINGS TO KNOW BEFORE ENGAGING IN ROUGH SEX

Rough sex is empowering for couples and can be a healthy expression of love and desire. It can even be a tool to get through a mental crisis like grief or stress, of course, when it is completely consensual. Also  the consent that comes from both parties is both active and constant. As much as it can be a liberating and exciting experience, it could be deeply disturbing and traumatizing—depending on how you approach it, both with your partner and yourself.

The term rough sex itself can vary between people or couples, which means that anything outside of vanilla; under-the-covers, lights off, missionary sex can be considered rough. For some, the term BDSM may even come to mind. Not that the latter is in and of itself wrong, if that’s what you enjoy. For people who want to explore something a little more intense, however, it’s best to be mentally prepared for it. Before engaging in rough sex, 

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EDUCATE YOURSELF ENOUGH

Rough sex can be exciting, after all, there is a fine line between pain and pleasure that makes for intense and passionate intercourse if done correctly. However, as mentioned before, the definition of rough sex can differ from person to person, which is why it’s extremely important to both trust your partner and define exactly what rough sex means for you.

Read up on the options available to you. When it comes to your sexual preferences, there is no shame in reading as much material about it as possible. Learn as much as you can about your sexual preferences, especially when it comes sex that can potentially involve pain.

There are numerous resources regarding various kinks and sexual positions that you can check out online, as long as you keep an open mind!

 TRUST YOUR PARTNER

Prior to intercourse, most people will already have a certain level of trust for their sexual partner, whether it is a casual fling or a long-term partner. However, when it comes to preferences during sex, many couples—even those in long-term relationships—can have trouble communicating exactly what they want because of a number of reasons, trust, and latent insecurities being the most common.

Engaging in rough and vigorous sex can be intense and can even involve physical pain. This means that, for rough sex to be healthy for both participants, there has to be a strong level of trust between them. Before engaging in rough sex, boundaries must be set, and both partners need to trust each other that those boundaries will be respected and followed.

KNOW YOUR PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL LIMITS

Again, the concept of rough sex can vary from person to person. It can be as simple as vigorous intercourse, involve light pain, or sex toys, etc. It is important for you to define exactly what rough sex is through your personal perspective. Take note, however, that it doesn’t matter what gender you are. If you want it, initiate it!

Not only does this make communicating what you want from your partner much clearer, it also sets physical and emotional limits. These limits are important, both for you and your partner, because it can be mentally and physically taxing on people who might not be ready for it. These boundaries are set to put both mind and body at ease. 

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