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The Aftercare for BDSM Sessions

The Aftercare for BDSM Sessions

 

BDSM is not just about the kinky session; it’s also important to understand that both parties involved should be taken care of and checked in each other after the session, especially if the BDSM session involves the kinky scenes. The aftercare commonly includes; giving them a ride home, bring some water to them, talking, hugging, cuddling, or only caring for any physical wounds that may have occurred during the session.

So here are some things you should know about the aftercare for BDSM sessions;

Proper preparation

Communicate with your partner about safe words, boundaries, and limitations. The aftercare process will be easier when you do adequate preparation. Set the expectation and make sure the session work for both of the roles. Communicate what each other need beforehand, whether it’s a hug, glass of water, or other aftercare treats.

Choose the right partner

If they can’t be bothered to get you aftercare or ask you how you are doing after the session, how can you trust them to take care of you during the heat of things? The one who can’t be bothered to get you aftercare is not someone you should having sex with.

Formal contracts

If the aftercare can’t come naturally, some people make writing aftercare into their BDSM contracts. The crucial things are to make sure that you and your partner o the same level when it comes to an understanding of the best aftercare for each other after the BDSM sessions.

The dominants also need the aftercare

Or maybe they needed it the most. Dominants added more responsibility for planning and executing scenes and looking out for their submissive’s best interests. So the aftercare more essentials for the dominants to help them back to their default mental state.

Counts the simple things

The aftercare also good practice for intimate experiences. Remember that it’s never a bad idea to check in with your partner, cuddling, hugging, and communicate after the BDSM sessions.

Continue the aftercare

There is a possibility that some feelings will come up after a scene, so it’s always a good idea to check your partner a few days later too. The more intense the session, the more they need for extended aftercare.

Different aftercare for a different person

What a person needs as aftercare is not necessarily universal. The must things to do is to make sure the communication is there, and both are open about what each other seek in a health aftercare environment. Don’t ever assume that you know your partner needs, that’s why it should be negotiated beforehand.

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